Menstrual Monday
Posted on Monday, February 24, 2014

I have been nursing a terrrrrible case of dysmenorrhea today. No bueno! I got rid of my old birth control hence the new flow and it's a machine! [Sorry for the TMI.] Thank goodness for these home remedies, on the third day, it's mellowed quite a bit.

For you, just in case you face the same #girlprobs in the future:


1. 1c pineapple juice + 1/2c lemon juice to stimulate bleeding.

2. Iron supplements to restore blood in your body.

3. Muscle relaxers to help you move around. The backache and abdominal pains are no joke.

4. Warm water, instead of cold, to avoid bloating.

5. Water-based fruit may also help such as: watermelon, cucumber, and berries.

6. Avoid heavy carbs, alcohol, and carbonated beverages that would cause bloating.

7. No coffee, instead, drink some ginger tea.

8. And apply pressured heat on your lower abdomen and lower back to decrease pain (use a heating pad or towelette soaked in hot water).

Geez, and men say women have it so easy. Screw that. And this is a monthly ordeal for most of us! Granted we normally use this as as an excuse to act a certain way, it's still not a fair reason to be mean or bitchy to people around us. Exercise or any physical activity will help your release endorphins aka happy hormones. I know, I know, it can be uncomfortable working out while bleeding out of your vagina. But there's a bike you can sit on for 20 minutes. That should be enough to help you avoid being the cranky one in the office. :)

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Moving On
Posted on Saturday, February 22, 2014

It has been quite a break, let me tell you. I haven't actively blogged (although I honestly intended to) because I have been dealing with something personal, which I won't dig more into. Let's just say that I'm currently single, and although we've ended it in better terms than expected, I am focusing more on myself and detering any romantic prospects. For now at least.

Break-ups are a bitch. (For lack of a better word.) Nobody wants to go through it, nobody wants to face it, nobody wants it period. It is difficult, especially when you feel like you have shared a life with that particular person --- life meaning: families of each side are involved, assets, the commitment, and countless memories --- there is no easy way of throwing it all away.

But there are ways to help you, us, move on quite easier than locking ourselves in a room, with tubs of ice cream and racks of ribs. That's just not going to work.


It is OKAY to cry. So cry!
Yes, grieving is perfectly normal. Heck, even I alienated myself for a good couple of days from the world. Time alone is absolutely necessary. Reflect, remember the good things, your rejuvenated freedom, and all the possibilities. Of course you will miss him, everyday, for a very long time. But this break or break-up happened for a reason, that's the truth we all have to face at some point. It is OK to cry. Cry it all out, damn it! Cry it to the point where you can't feel you can cry anymore. That time will come, I promise.

Assert your strengths and list down things you want to accomplish alone.
I decided I needed time for myself to go back to school and learn the fundamentals of being a successful business woman, and also to seek opportunities to start my entrepreneurship. It wasn't an easy decision but being single could be an advantage. Less stress, more focus, and more time to spend thinking about and accomplishing goals --- these all seem to be positives, not reasons to frown about. So venture out! Do things you have always wanted to do that were put in the back burner, may it be pursuing a career or traveling the world. DO YOU.

Maybe you are also due for a makeover.
The last two times I went through a rough breakup, I drastically cut my hair into a bob --- of which both times, I regretted for a long time. I adore my medium length hair and I guess, it's time to change something else. I enrolled in a gym and have been moderately using it. Walking the treadmill while watching an episode of Grey's Anatomy on Netflix is a great start. But you may need a haircut! Why not? Get some new layers, a new hair color, or brush up on your make-up skills, get some gel nails, or shop a whole new wardrobe. We have to admit the harsh truth, we do let a piece of ourselves go when we get into a serious relationship. (I gained 40 lbs, yikes!) So get rid of the daily sweatpants routine and get that glamour you once had.


Create a new hobby.
Spring is around a corner too, girl! Go for a hike, buy a bike, fly a kite! (Yes, I purposefully tried to rap.) There are tons of things you can get into. Not to mention, a new TV show addiction on Netflix, why not! Anything to keep you busy and away from the thoughts of loneliness. Because you are not lonely. You are strong and determined to move on. So do it! I recently got into DIY (thanks Pinterest) and have been redecorating my room. Cooking, shopping or both! Find a hobby that will enhance your skills set, personality, and knowledge. It will be time well spent.

Love yourself...more than you would love anything/anyone.
It is true when the old folks say, the only way to fully invest your love into someone is by doing the same with yourself first. I've had self-esteem issues since I was a teenager which oftentimes resulted in depression and negativity. Not cool! I started going out in college and found happiness around my friends. I reckoned that spending quality time with family and friends made me a chipper person in general. Surround yourself with people who love you for you, that way, you will learn to love yourself more and more each day. Go out with the girls! Put a pretty dress on and sashay into a nightclub. Boost your self esteem by talking to strangers and making new friends. You are single, you are free to do whatever you feel. But remember to always love yourself and stay classy.

Moving on isn't easy, but it does become easier looking at it optimistically. So give yourself a day or two to dwell on the past, pour it all out, and eat one (just ONE) Ben & Jerry's pint. After that, you need to snap out of it, put your Beyonce on, and move on with life. Because it is beautiful and so are you. Don't let it go to waste. After all, it's a just a boy. ;)

[Photo credits: Huffington Post, Little Leopard Book]

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On your day off...
Posted on Tuesday, March 12, 2013

I have promised myself I will stop and avoid staying in bed, laying around, being lazy on my days off. I used to front my 40-hour work weeks as an excuse to bum for 48 hours, but I noticed that for losing weight, that is NOT a good idea---took me a while to realize that ;p so for the past few weeks, I made sure that my days off didn't go to waste. I found tricks to help me get off my feet and here are a few of my favorites.

1. Put on your running shoes.
I don't care if I'm only going to the mall, do groceries, my laundry or the movies. Wearing running shoes makes me feel like I have to be active, or be on the move all the time. Along with that, put on some work out clothes. Cute sweats, yoga pants, or a hoodie. Even if you're not in the gym, make whatever you're doing a workout.

2. Plan a date.
If you're not feeling the sweatsuit and want to get dressed up on your day off (which I don't blame you for), plan a date with your other half. When my boyfriend and I don't feel like doing something, we go by the lake and walk around. Nature is the best thing to see at anytime of any season. Take the air in and enjoy the intimate moments. (If outdoors are not your thing, try the mall or the shooting range. Just something for the two of you to enjoy without staying in bed all day.)

3. Look for an activity.
In line with shooting guns or window shopping, an activity with a friend, your man, or the girls should always be in the list. What I have done recently is redecorate my room, which included shopping at Hobby Lobby, and researching DIY artworks on Pinterest. That addicting website has a gazillion of DIY's, you will want to have a vacation doing nothing but. I'm sure there's an activity out there for you. Hint: start with spring cleaning ;)

4. Get your chores done.
I know 40 hour weeks make you lazy when it comes to chores. Don't lie to yourself, you HAVE seen your sink full of dirty dishes, your hamper with dirty clothes, and your pantry completely empty. That's what your days off are for. Complete these tasks before you go another week without food or socks.

5. Visit your family or old friends.
I love going to my parents' house on my days off. It always feels like home, of course. You see your coworkers more than you see your family and that's a sad fact. Make them feel special by visiting or staying the night---water your mom's plants, help your dad wash the cars, or pack your little brother/sister's lunch. A full time career shouldn't make you neglect your family, or any loved one for that matter.

Time is something you can't replace so make the most out of it. Make your days off worth while by creating experiences for your well being, your surroundings, and the people and things you care about. Carpe Diem! :)

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The weekender
Posted on Friday, January 18, 2013

When I lived in Texas, I had the luxury of having a legitimate reason to get out of town every weekend I wished to. I had parents to visit here in Las Vegas. Enjoyed the late night flights and early morning arrivals, flying out after work and flying in just before clocking in. I wasn't a frequent flyer before but the whole parents excuse gave me a leeway to learn how to be an efficient packer. Especially when you fly Spirit? Oh boy, you only get one bag. One. Or you pay extra. I'm currently packing for a weekend trip to Los Angeles hence this blog: a few tips on how to pack a weekender bag; traveling light with the essentials and the cutest outfits.

1. The bag
It all starts with the bag. You would need an average sized weekender bag (think this Louis Vuitton). But since I'm cheap, I got me this Marc Jacobs bargain for $160 at Nordstroms. Spacious and very sturdy. This oldie and I have been traveling together for years and though it has started chipping some, the handles haven't died a bit.


2. One (just one!) ziplock bag
If you're riding a plane it's always best to keep traveling with liquids on a low. Target, Walmart, and a lot of convenience stores have a variety of travel sized essentials to accommodate flyers. Personally, I only bring my small bottle of perfume, hairspray, and make up remover. Generic stuff such as shampoo, lotion, and toothpaste can be left out. These are easily available everywhere, unless you're particular with a brand.

3. Leggings, leggings, leggings
Jeans are heavy and can bulk up your small luggage. It's easier to pack, wear, and wash leggings when you're on a short vacation.

4. Thin shirts, button downs, blouses, sundresses
Just like leggings, these items can help lighten the weight of your weekender. Tip: if it's cold, layer up with button downs just like how I did on the picture below.


5. Ballet flats or sandals
Since it's only a two or three-day vacay, it wouldn't hurt not to wear those bulky boots and heels. Usually I go to the city or the beach where these two aren't even necessary, hence the ballet flats for the night out and the sandals for the day at the shore.

I also keep a small messenger bag (see my coach one here) since leggings don't usually come with pockets and this satchel is a lot easier to carry around than a shoulder or handbag. As a frequent weekender, I'll say that this routine hasn't failed once. I hope these tips can help you pack efficiently for a fun weekend!

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